Do Not Compare Yourself

Do not compare yourself to others. If you do than most likely you are setting yourself up. Instead think about what you have that the other person does not.

Give Your Loved one Something

I watched one of the greates "in my opinion" chickflics ever. I am not going to say the name because it's not about the movie it's about the message it potrayed! The message is that no matter how much we love somebody that does not matter unless we show them. So this next month in honor of valentines day show your loved ones that you care by some gesture no matter how big or small.

Practice a Pep Talk

Waking up in the morning is one of the most dreadful things sometimes. Another day of hard times which make living completley stress free impossible. Why don't you try giving yourself a pep talk. "Today is going to be a good day, or I will try my best for today to be a good day. I know it may sound crazy but It really works!

Again every activity I explain on here I myself am doing. It's not like I share without doing.

Self Esteem Boost

how many times have you had a negative comment come your way? How many times have you wanted to cry because somebody called you fat, ugly, stupid, a bad dresser? Many times us as women get targeted because we are ,face it, easy targets. Women are emotional creatures and we believe most comments that come our way, although we shouldn't let those comments have any effect on us they do. So today I am challenging you to start this process with me, I will be doing this too and if I find it does not work I will come back and blog about what I would have done different.

ALLOW THIS TO BE A DISCUSSION FORUM! I wish there was such thing on here but please feel free to comment on here and I will comment back! Here's a video I found on you tube, I didn't put it directly on my page because there are other good videos! Please feel free to roam outside for more esteem boosters because there are others who care just as deeply. I am not doing this blog for glory I'm doing this for women who want some 1 on 1 time with themselves like I need everyday!

Here's the link !

Dirt Away

what you will need 2 tablespoons of soil, 2 clear plastic cups or real glass it doesn't patter, quilted paper towel if you don't have quilted just double up, 1 rubber band.

In one cup mix dirt and half a glass of water together- this will create really dirty water! This water represents your sins. Take the next cup fold the paper towel in half or fourths depending on size of towel and place the rubberband on it to hold the towel on there. Now the towel represents salvation , Jesus Christ. Pour the dirty water in the clean covered cup and the paper towel should cetch the dirt and the water should come out clean.

How does this activity help us women? It shows us  that Jesus Christ  saved us from sin! I am not a preacher and if you do not believe in God okay just don't give up on me just yet. Even if you don't believe in God the Bible is real and it has real history. Through God anything is possible and he gave us his manual. If you have any questions about the activity or the lesson feel free to email me.

Super Human? I don't think so!

I have to go to the grocery store! I need to pay the phones! I don't know what to make for dinner! Ooops I forgot to wash their clothes.

Women we are just way too busy! Sometimes we just need to slow down and take a break from life's hectic schedule. So many people expect us to do it all as mothers, wives, and teens. We are expected to be the emotional support, the calender, the watch, the book keeper, the secretary, and the accountant. We just can not achieve every goal all in one setting. So many times we sit around wondering when our break comes, well here it is! This blog is not about schedules, money, or even housekeeping! This blog is about YOU! That's right! I am not the best story teller, so if you're looking for great stories, than this isn't the blog for you! I am not a great historian so if you are looking for a great lesson on women in history I am not your gal! However, if you are looking to grow as a women, think of yourself and other differently, and learn how to make your days count than I may be able to help.

Follow me on this journey and we will travel through different topics to help each other out! There will be activities, video's, readings, and discussions! Please feel free to contact me with questions I am not promising great answers, however I will try to steer you on the right path.

This blog will be emotional, funny, loving, and brutal at times. It is not to make us feel good but to realize the worth we have as women. The important role we play in society, and how we can determine the good from evil. I am a Godly woman, but this is not about preaching, I will reference the Bible because it is the only true book that has answers to our problems. I may get offensive, but all this blog will contain is things that will help us as women be better mothers, wives, girlfriends, individuals, or friends. I look forward to talking to you and getting to know you at a more personal level. If you want to email me feel free just make sure to write your first name in the subject box so I know it's not a scam. My email is pcnelsongirl@live.com I will get back to you as soon as I can!

Don't Be Caught Alone!

 So I'm not the best at making videos but the point is that we as woman face so many evils in this world, not that men don't but whatever the situation take it to the cross!

We Will Never Be Good Enough HOWEVER!

"Your hair is not the right color! Your eyes are too small! Your stomach is too big! You are not good enough!" How many times do we has women hear this? My heart breaks as I watch a girl with a perfect figure walk by and immediately I start to think: "What if..." Isn't there somebody who knows how special I am? Somebody who knows my pain? I start to believe there is no one out there, my heart just keeps going through a grinder getting shredded to pieces by all the world expects of us.

The world will tell us females how to look, how to act, and what we should do for a living. If it was up to this world honestly all women would be good for is housekeeping, mating, and looking good! But ladies, we have so much more to offer! Psalm 139:13 "You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb". God , the CREATOR of the universe, created our most delicate/inner parts and put us together in our mother's womb! Does that not mean enough for us to rethink our strategy. If the we keep losing the game why do we not try a new strategy? One may be thinking of different ways to change our thinking but God our creator who sent His "one and only Son" Jesus Christ to die for our sins (John 3:16) wrote us a handy manual. The manual is THE BIBLE. I am not trying to preach goodness I am no saint, but I as much as the next woman am sick of trying to live the worlds standards! "When am I going to mean something in this world?" This question I ask myself every day, and the answer is NEVER! "When am I going to be good enough to enter the Kingdom of Heaven and be happy for eternity?" NEVER, however I can enter the Kingdom of Heaven by the Grace of God. I accept the ultimate sacrifice (Jesus, Christ) and accept the fact that on my own I will never earn my way into heaven , but it is by faith not works in which I can be saved. Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God." Romans 6:23 "For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life, through Jesus Christ, our Lord"


Romans 11:6 " And if they are saved by God's kindness, then it is not by their good works. For in that case, God's wonderful kindness would not be what it really is--free and undeserved."

and the verse in which one shall remember in hard times

John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that He sent His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life"